A few neutrals I suppose would. Matters what else is there.

Painted gray, white or black. But it would help to know if you have chosen other elements such as appliances, flooring, because these all need to work together.

Toffee Spice colored Hickory Cabinets to pull out the brown in the granite.

wood tones, white, black, gray, off-white, ,,pretty much everything.

I would suggest white, will be a nice contrast to benches , and show them off ! Will go with what ever flooring you choose .

There is not enough brown in this granite to use wood tones. The "total net impression" this granite will present is black/gray. Stick with white maybe on perimeter and medium tone gray on base if island assuming there is island?

If you have a grey slate floor, I could see a medium toasty driftwood with it.

My appliances will be stainless steel.The flooring will be belluza absolute.Here is pic of it. I want to stain the kitchen cabinets. There will be a bar for sitting between kitchen and breakfast area. I feel like I would get tired of gray color pretty quick. Do not want to go too dark with stained color.

Off white

Is there an off white stain?

Yes. It is a white wash look like we did in the 80s. Thanks for additional info. Those selections are all "cool" so IMO for the most integrated look painted (offsite, pro finish) is your best bet. If you just have to stain, do the island a dark expresso. BTW, I don't think white stain on cabinets will get you a updated look, so do not recommend it at all.